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Undivided Podcast

Episode 9: Woman Up!
Episode 8: When to Leave the Faith
Episode 7: No Need to be Jelly
Episode 6: Girl, You Don't Need a Nap!
Episode 5: Cultivating Healthy Friendships
Episode 4: Grief is a Funny Thing
Episode 3: Why You're Still Single and What You Should do About it!
Episode 2
Undivided Episode 1

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Guy crew came in strong-apparently I have a lot of guy friends and I didn’t even know it...Summer and I are just back up vocalists for this boy-band! . . . Another birthday dinner is in the books! ...maybe next year we’ll just do a dinner and game night- cause we can’t be out here in these streets with these kids! . . . I may not had been born with a silver spoon in my mouth, but I sure did leave with one in my hand? 🤷🏾‍♀️😂🤦🏾‍♀️🙄 . . . #teamturnt #birthdaydinner #yesthatsaspooninmyhand #theseguys #andmeandSummer #boyband #toogrowntokickit #pastourbedtime

I would like to take a moment to thank all of you out there who participated in my global holiday...I mean, I’m supposed to pretend to be super chill... . . . Um, thank you everyone for all the birthday love! When you’re foreign your birthday truly feels like a global occasion and Y’all legit do the most when it comes to making me feel loved and seen! I wish I had to pretend to be so excited, but no need for that! Thank you guys for every sweet word, gifts, songs, etc. There’s no way anyone could look at my life and think that I’m not loved and I’m beyond thankful for that...and ultimately for you guys! Thanks for loving me *almost* as much as I love CFA! . . . #thankyou #birthday #speech #older #grownish #ilysm #blessed #thankful

Over here just trying to mind my own business. . . . Sometimes I feel like God is like- “baby girl, I need you to mind your business” . . . Anybody else find themselves too concerned and involved in things that are beyond their knowledge, control, and ability? Always trying to peak over at what God is doing with something He’s said He’s got covered? Spending way too much time worrying about something you’ve “surrendered”...? Trying to predict the future and how things will play out? You ever just try to tell God what to do, how to do it, and WHEN to do it? 🙋🏾‍♀️?No? Just me? 🙄Cool. . . . Psalm 131: O Lord, my heart is not lifted up; my eyes are not raised too high; I do not occupy myself with things too great and too marvelous for me. . . . So. In minding my own business- I’d like to trust when I’ve prayed that I’ve been heard and that whatever I prayed about does not need my manipulation! That my super not here-today-future does not need my excessive worrying in order for it to take place. I want to be more calm about and in the storms of life. And I’d really like to throw my hands up more in exclamation of “oh well” 🤷🏾‍♀️ (and move on). Because a lot of things don’t matter. Like at all. . . . I’d like to mind my business and pursue to love God more purely as I sip my perfectly warm cup of chai latte at everything else. . . . You can pray that for and over me this year😃 . . . #mindyourbusiness #nosey #trust #letlifehappen #choosejoy #rest #pray #staycalm #lifeonpurpose #livelife #whatmattersmost #faith growth #lookingahead #birthday

Let me tell y’all about this sweet soul-girl in the cute overalls-I haven’t known her long at all, but the bit that I’ve gotten to know is more than enough to convince me that I want her in my life! she is hands down one of the sweetest blessings! She’s got a gentle spirit that’s just so loving and inviting! . . . This girl blew me away with her crazy talent tonight! I knew she could sangggg (cause she leads worship at church) but homegirl can also write songs that are pure and heartfelt. . . . I’m so incredibly proud of you @shawntel_huntley I legit feel like you were in your element tonight and if nervous has ever worked for anyone- girl it works for you! So good! . . . #gifted #singer #songwriter #talentedfriends #sweetsoul #sheclaimedshewasnervous #pureheart #puretalent #livemusic

Happy Birthday to my baby seester! Here we are, yet again to another year where I have to wait to celebrate MY birthday and celebrate yours first 😏This idea never sat well with me at the age of 4 and not sure that things have changed much! . . . Gee, thanks for putting up with me all these years(even though you didn’t have a choice) and for letting me boss you around(also didn’t have much of a choice there either)...and thanks even for the times you serve back the sass I excitedly contribute to your life! . . . I love you from Chick-fil-A and back ...Thats as deep as it gets Sis, so I love you lots! 😘😘 . . . Omg get an instagram account already!🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ . . . #happybirthday #birthdaygirl #ilysm #sisters #gettingold #sisterfriends #siblings #sissy

I joked with a friend yesterday that this week has felt like I’ve had to tell Satan “not today”, and the next day would come and I’d have to say “not today either...or tomorrow, or the next day” . . . I’ve said this before but saying it again- joy is a choice. Life will happen and sometimes it’ll get sassy, but it’s so important to have the awareness to know when your heart wants to go a direction you don’t want it to. I’ve decided that I know there’ll be days things will get the best of me, but I sure am going to try to minimize how many of those days I have. I only get but a few of them here on earth and I just really TRULY want to spend them joyfully; Experiencing joy and sharing it with those around me! . . . Above all else, guard your heart. . . . #choosejoy #nottoday #guardyourheart #lifeonpurpose #countyourblessings #blessed #tooblessedtobestressed #smile #spreadthejoy #preachingtomyself #choosewisely

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Episode 4: Grief is a Funny Thing
Episode 3: Why you’re still single and what you should do about it!
Episode 1: the heart behind undivided

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Hey girl hey! I know I’ve been a bit MIA, but we’re just gonna skip over those details cause... . . . Have you ever looked at your life and thought, “whoa, I would NEVER have asked for everything I’ve been through, but boy am I glad I did” or maybe you’ve thought “I can’t believe I prayed and cried for THAT and now I see why God didn’t give me what I wanted!” . . . Y’all, I get so sappy and contemplative around my birthday and I find myself this year on the verge of tears thinking about ALL that I’ve endured over the last year and just how much God loved me, got me through, gave and didn’t give me! And I couldn’t be more thankful! . . . I would be lying if I said I wasn’t still feeling the grief of some of it, but you gotta know this- I (and you are) am right where I should be, living the life planned that I’d be living in this very moment in time! . . . I’ve learned more than anything this year to show up for the life God has blessed me with- not the one I want or the one I had, or even the one I can imagine having. But to actively show up to faithfully walk through what God, in His sovereignty, has laid out before me! . . . If there’s any wisdom I could impart on you, today, it would be this and Tim Keller said it so well “if you knew what God knew, you would answer your prayers the way God does”. Girl quit with your wishful thinking! Our God is GOOD. SOVEREIGN. TRUSTWORTHY. You can rest in that He is over all the little things you worry yourself about. Trust HIM!!!! . . . #godisgood #lifeonpurpose #purpose #trusttheprocess #growup #letitbe #woman #womenoffaith #itallworks #prayaboutit #ministry #nowhereidratherbe

On Tuesday morning I woke up with this prayer as soon as my alarm went off- “God, give me a gentle spirit” I wasn’t really sure why that was the prayer on my heart and the first thought on my mind, but I’ve prayed that every day since and what I’m realizing through that is how quick I am to want to solve things, to rush out of what I view and feel as unpleasant. . . . But I’m learning that God is calling me to not be reactive-Not in my decisions, not in my relationships, and not even in life. . . . He’s calling me instead to a stillness. A calm of some sort. He’s in control and that’s ALL the comfort I could ever need! . . . “Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth” Matt. 5:5 . . . Girl, you were not called to live in the chaos. Is your life hectic? Your thoughts loud? Is your heart anxious? Do you find yourself stressed out, short tempered, and easily frustrated? . . . God’s calling you into the quiet. There in that very place you’ll find the quiet strength you need to withstand all that comes before you. . . . Maybe you need to hear this- you don’t have to be strong. You don’t have to prove your strength to anyone. . . . #bestill #bequiet #gentleheart #pureheart #gentlespirit #blessedarethemeek #heisstrong #IneedyouLord #prayer #seek #seekfirst

Soooooo, have you listened to my talk yet? Of course not cause I forgot to share it 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ . . . Welp, here it is and also sharing link in my bio! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_9JRTGwWTnk . . . #linkinbio #speakerinthemaking #golisten #testimony #testimonytuesday #ptl

I know I should be promoting my newest episode so here it is: episode 9 is up! Go listen to it ☺️ . . More importantly I’ve wanted to put words to this since yesterday so here it is- . . I found myself bawling my eyes out in counseling yesterday morning. That statement isn’t much of a surprise because I am working through some tough hurts and emotions...BUT the crying that left my body so exhausted yesterday in my session was from the realization that God has literally saved my life (not just my soul...my LIFE). He has been the one constant person in my life and THAT has saved me from all sorts of things, people, and destructive behaviors. . . We say often that “God is good”, but I think I saw that come to life in MY life as I sat down to work through things. Why in the world did I need to tell you that? Because if you knew the distractions I’m encountering this week (since Saturday) you would know how much the reality of His goodness would mean. . . I’ve been learning that somehow God has had my heart postured to SEE, to perceive, His goodness because while I’m sitting amidst a very chaotic week- I need not be distracted. . . Girl. Don’t be distracted. Everything happening all around you. The stupid little things that keep happening to get you off course, frustrated, upset, etc. those are not by accident. You have an enemy who is recklessly trying to keep you from wholly seeing God move in your life. But oh must you know- God is active, alive, and doing a new thing all around you! . . Saying “God is good” isn’t an empty statement. Don’t get so used to saying that that it doesn’t move you! GOD IS good and His goodness is legit chasing after you. Rest on that for a minute. Where would you be without Him?. I took the time to ponder that yesterday and it has wrecked me. . . By His grace we can stand still in the middle of the chaos that surrounds us. We don’t have to wait for the storm to end to experience the calm. Nah girl. We can experience the calm IN the storm! . . “How abundant are the good things that you have stored up for those who fear you, that you bestow in the sight of all, on those who take refuge in you” psalm 31:19 . . #bestill #bestillandknow

Woman up! . . Episode 9 is up and we are looking at the mark of a mature woman! . . . Love is patient love is kind...when I was a child I thought and reasoned as a child... what do these verses have to do with each other? . . . For starters they are back to back in the Bible. Found in the same chapter, consecutively place. Perhaps the type of love we’re called to requires a certain amount of growth and spiritual maturity! . . . Girl it’s time to put away your childish ways- gossip, fits of rage and anger, irresponsibility, childlike mindsets and the like! Men are told to “man up”, but it’s fair to say we must also woman up. . . . #thetimeisnow #growup #womanup #glowup #podcast #christian #christians #christianpodcast #christianblog #ministry #maturewomen #age #adult #adulting #linkinbio #tunein #undivided #woman #millennial #sharehope #encourage #uplift #support

I sometimes wake up with an overwhelming sense that what God has called me to is much bigger than I could imagine. . . . Don’t hear me wrong- when we hear that we think famous! Ooo I’m gonna be famous! Nah girl. This one is more of a “God wants to be glorified in EVERY single aspect of my life. All of it.” . . . That realization carries a sense of heaviness... of not wanting to get it wrong. Like what He’s called me to isn’t something I could just do out of boredom but that it carries so much weight that if I think too much about it, it could be debilitating. . . . But you know what though, shouldn’t we all feel that weight because the God who calls us to whatever it is, is Himself, the God of the universe. The one who set before us the example of pouring Himself out for us, of walking the hard road, of loving to the point of death, of speaking truth IN love, of abiding in the spirit. How do I not wake up with a sunken stomach? . . . Girl, yes that calling is bigger than you, and I know sometimes it’s so scary you don’t even know what to do. But hear this, don’t neglect it. That thing God has put in your heart that freaks you out a bit...or a lot? That’s the thing. Lean in, don’t run from it. God has a purpose and you aren’t crazy. Maybe you need to hear that again- you aren’t crazy. . . . We won’t always get it right, but boy do we get the privilege of giving it our all because we know that HIS grace goes with us. That even when we mess up, there are new mercies, and because of them we keep going. We don’t stop and dwell on our mistakes, we don’t contemplate guilt, we do not give up the fight. We repent and we keep going! . . . Have you neglected your calling? This may be as simple as your calling to follow Jesus-are you giving it your all? Are you fully in at your church? Serving God at your job in the way you love your coworkers? Does God have your WHOLE life? What lies or fears are keeping you from being all in? . . . #wakeup #youhaveworktodo #live #lifeonpurpose #lovedoes #stepup #standout #fight #fightthefear #nofear #nofearinlove #heartonfire #lifegoals #dontstop #dontquit #millennials #dreambig #Godisbig #oneyou #callingintheone #youareenough

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